by Russzilla » Wed Dec 21, 2016 5:21 am
XvGojira, my heartfelt condolences goes out to you my man. I'm so very sorry about the passing of your wife because of that horrible disease cancer. I know exactly how you feel. I lost my wife to lung cancer just a year ago last December. Losing a loved one is never easy, but losing a spouse, particularly a husband losing a wife, can be really heart wrenching. The first year will be the absolute toughest. Anything and everything will remind you of her, but stay strong and as positive as you can be. This year has been extremely tough for me. I sometimes feel like I'm no better than what I was a year ago. And at times, I feel very lost. Most people have no idea how much control a wife has over there husbands lives. And when she is gone, we're like newborn pups without its mother. There are lots and lots of reading material here on the internet about grieving and husbands losing wives, etc,. What I have read has helped some so far. I recommend the same for you. The grieving process will not be an easy one. But with inner strength, and much help from the Lord himself, you will get through this over time. If you ever have any questions, do not hesitate to pm me. Stay strong my friend, and always remember that, even though her suffering is over, and she's in a much better place, she also will never be far from you. Prayers and Peace my man.