Rules of Dating?

Ok, this sounds very juvenile and high-school, which is exactly why I want an opinion of those who aren't high-school.
I'm 18, I'm a senior in high school, I'll be attending The Everghreen State College in the fall.
I dated a girl for 5 months last year from January to June. The reason we broke up is because she was going to be an exchange student in the Philippines. We have since "gotten over" eachother, and I have a girlfriend now, and we're really happy. The girl (the ex) and I are still friends, and we're cool.
She has known my best friend for about 7 or 8 years now. They liked eachother off and on at points, but never told eachother. And, when they finally admitted their feelings, they were already dating other people.
She comes back in May, and my best friend has asked her to our Prom.
It will be my girlfriend and I, and my best friend and the ex. My girlfriend, aside from her biased freaking-out, doesn't think this is right, and she says anyone will agree with her, based on the rules of dating, blah blah blah. But my best friend and I are totally fine with it.
So, I'm asking you guys. Does my girlfriend have a valid point, or should we just throw the "rules" out the window and let life be life?
I'm 18, I'm a senior in high school, I'll be attending The Everghreen State College in the fall.
I dated a girl for 5 months last year from January to June. The reason we broke up is because she was going to be an exchange student in the Philippines. We have since "gotten over" eachother, and I have a girlfriend now, and we're really happy. The girl (the ex) and I are still friends, and we're cool.
She has known my best friend for about 7 or 8 years now. They liked eachother off and on at points, but never told eachother. And, when they finally admitted their feelings, they were already dating other people.
She comes back in May, and my best friend has asked her to our Prom.
It will be my girlfriend and I, and my best friend and the ex. My girlfriend, aside from her biased freaking-out, doesn't think this is right, and she says anyone will agree with her, based on the rules of dating, blah blah blah. But my best friend and I are totally fine with it.
So, I'm asking you guys. Does my girlfriend have a valid point, or should we just throw the "rules" out the window and let life be life?